trade

sometimes, the best way to get what u want is by helping others get what they want.
it's some sort of a trade. but it's not just any trade, but rather, the kind that's completely guaranteed.


Daripada Abu Hurairah r.a. daripada Nabi SAW, Baginda telah bersabda:
Barangsiapa yang melepaskan seorang mukmin daripada satu kesusahan daripada kesusahan-kesusahan dunia, nescaya Allah akan melepaskannya daripada satu kesusahan daripada kesusahan-kesusahan Qiamat. Barangsiapa yang mempermudahkan bagi orang susah, nescaya Allah akan mempermudahkan baginya di dunia dan di akhirat. Barangsiapa yang menutup ke’aiban seorang muslim, nescaya Allah akan menutup ke’aibannya di dunia dan akhirat. Allah sentiasa bersedia menolong hambaNya selagi mana dia suka menolong saudaranya. Barangsiapa yang melalui suatu jalan untuk menuntut ilmu, nescaya Allah akan mempermudahkan baginya suatu jalan menuju ke syurga. Sesuatu kaum tidak berkumpul di salah sebuah rumah-rumah Allah (iaitu masjid) sambil mereka membaca Kitab Allah dan mengkajinya sesama mereka melainkan suasana ketenangan akan turun ke atas mereka, rahmat akan melitupi mereka dan mereka akan di kelilingi oleh para malaikat dan Allah akan menyebut (perihal) mereka kepada orang-orang yang berada di sisiNya. Barangsiapa yang terlambat amalannya, nescaya nasab keturunannya tidak mampu mempercepatkannya.


so, r u good in something, that in shaa Allah, u can do it quicker and better than others?
if u are, then try helping people who are bad at doing it. try making their life easier and more serene.

then in shaa Allah, God will in turn help u in doing things that u are bad at. u know, bad things that u've tried many times to overcome without success. or bad habits that u believe to be indelible.

good things happen to people who do good things to others, even when sceptics deny it. nuff said.

awake

oh my, i've got a full day tomorrow.
and yet, these eyes do not tire.
of all the time to be awake ... sigh... it had to be now

mute

sometimes it's a lot better to keep quiet than to retaliate.
this is true.. almost invariably.
particularly, when infuriation is imminent.

17:53 Dan katakanlah kepada hamba-hamba-Ku: "Hendaklah mereka mengucapkan perkataan yang lebih baik (benar). Sesungguhnya syaitan itu menimbulkan perselisihan di antara mereka. Sesungguhnya syaitan itu adalah musuh yang nyata bagi manusia."

stand

if u have a good principle, and u know that it's good, act in accordance with that principle.
regardless of what others normally do.

let's say ur principle is "help people when they really need it".
and so see a person u know, who really needs help.
but u also know that the person hates u, and he loves dissing u behind ur back.

this is a common dilemma. there's a competition between principle and anger.
by common sense (how normal people would act) u shouldn't be helping.
but if it's a good principle why not?

we shouldnt let other people drive us up the wall.
we shouldn't let others dictate how we intend to execute a particular principle.
coz there's always a saboteur, always.
no matter how hard u try to do things right, there are always people out there who'd try to deter u.

so, the hell with them.
just do the right thing.


3:133 Dan bersegeralah kamu kepada ampunan dari Tuhanmu dan kepada syurga yang luasnya seluas langit dan bumi yang disediakan untuk orang-orang yang bertakwa,

3:134 (yaitu) orang-orang yang menafkahkan (hartanya), baik di waktu lapang maupun sempit, dan orang-orang yang menahan amarahnya dan memaafkan (kesalahan) orang. Allah menyukai orang-orang yang berbuat kebajikan.

new year's resolution and habit

it's new year. plenty are sharing their resolution. making new resolutions are kinda fun but don't forget that keeping them is what really matters.

so, how do we keep 'em, these inspiring resolutions?

it's good to know that we're all creatures of habit. so, try cultivating habits that support our resolution. it'd make everything a lot easier.

if ur new resolution is to be slimmer or lose 10 kg, then what kinda habits should u form to help make this resolution a reality? let's look at a simple example.

RESOLUTION
lose 10kg

HABIT
1. habit of eating one plate of rice at every meal, regardless of delicacy, regardless.
2. habit of spending at most 5 minutes to eat. this way, u won't think about eating more.
3. habit of walking 20 minutes every evening to increase metabolism and shed that extra fat.

we better start building those habits. experts say that we need at least 30 days to do this. so start small and focus only on one habit at a time for at least 30 days to make it stick.


Daripada Aisyah ra,  Nabi Muhammad SAW bersabda:
“Wahai manusia lakukanlah amalan mengikut keupayaan kamu. Sesungguhnya Allah tidak jemu sehinggalah kamu jemu. Amalan yang paling Allah sukai ialah amalan yang berterusan walaupun sedikit.”
(Riwayat al-Bukhari dan Muslim)